(Rough Copy) I remain enigma even to myself I try so hard to dance with the roaring phoenix inside But now it demands to lead… To expand its wings and take flight. Its thirst still not satiated Sometimes I tremble at the horrors it hides Sometimes its pain and desires melt into one Who will…… Continue reading Sweet Sinner
Category: Sensuality
Tantra: Pleasure & Feeling…Let’s Talk About Self-Gratification.
As modern as our society thinks it is, it still promotes dissonance by not addressing sexuality from a place of balance between pleasure and spirituality…. body and psyche. Instead, sexuality is either criticized or abused. On the one hand there are those who criticize sexuality and blame it for everything bad. On the other hand,…… Continue reading Tantra: Pleasure & Feeling…Let’s Talk About Self-Gratification.
Tantra: Understanding Blockages
Blockage or resistance is anything that hinders the natural flow of your life force energy, this can be a physical blockage (cellular memory) or psychological; both are deeply interconnected. Throughout our lives, we all come across certain blockages which often prevent us from moving forward. Perhaps it would be easier to understand if I gave…… Continue reading Tantra: Understanding Blockages
Tantra: Free Sacred Sexuality vs. Hedonism
Recently I received an email asking me to address the difference between Tantra and Hedonism. This person read my article on polyamory among other Tantric articles and was left a bit confused. To give a bit of a background, she had developed an interest in Tantra and attended a workshop on “red tantra”; which more…… Continue reading Tantra: Free Sacred Sexuality vs. Hedonism
Tantra & Sexology: Woman Embrace Your Sexual Power
In our day an age, with the rise of the so-called New Feminism group– a group, which is very different than its origin, for Feminists never sought to belittle, castrate nor punish the opposite sex, as they recognized the beauty and power each gender holds and how they complement each other perfectly–more and more we…… Continue reading Tantra & Sexology: Woman Embrace Your Sexual Power
Tantra & Sexology: Understanding Erectile Dysfunction
Today I would like to expand on a subject which affects thousands of men yet is seldom talked about openly. Although we consider ourselves a modern society, we fail to approach the subject with openness, respect and a desire for pure enjoyment and connection. I hope today, to help dissipate some of the most common…… Continue reading Tantra & Sexology: Understanding Erectile Dysfunction
The Importance of Caressing
Beautiful, expanding, loving, passionate pleasure is our divine right. Regardless of how good or bad you may think you are as a sexual lover, the action of caressing one another opens up the channels to explore plenty of possibilities that otherwise we may miss. Unfortunately, over time couples tend to lose the ability to connect,…… Continue reading The Importance of Caressing
Real Tantra Isn’t false Indulgence…It is the Warrior’s Path
Like many ancient concepts, the concept of TANTRA, has gotten twisted by people who don’t actually know what Tantra is about or by small groups who seek to undermine the real power of Tantra, for they seek to transform it into a superficial tool for self-destruction. Through the years, the real meaning of the Tantric…… Continue reading Real Tantra Isn’t false Indulgence…It is the Warrior’s Path
The Hidden Power of The Sexual Union
As I was re-reading some of my Tantric Books and old material, I came across a beautiful piece that focuses on the sexual wounds we carry, and which like childhood wounds, have tremendous impact on our lives. As such, I would like to share some of what I read with all of you…. Some may…… Continue reading The Hidden Power of The Sexual Union
Tantra: Educating Ourselves on Sexual Penetration
What I am writing here is based on my piece “Reflections: Pornography…the Silent Killer” and on the teachings of Osho; teachings which have inspired the style and techniques used by mentors and sexual educators such as Diana Richardson and Barry Long among others. Unlike pornography would like us to believe, mindless thrusting does nothing for…… Continue reading Tantra: Educating Ourselves on Sexual Penetration
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